Provision Looks Like People

“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.”
‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4‬:‭9‬-‭10‬ ‭NLT‬‬

It’s a new year! This time last year, we were receiving deliveries almost daily for the baby shower. The party ended up falling on my birthday, completely unintentionally, and it was one I’ll never forget.

My best friend and I had a vision, and we brought it to life. We transformed my church’s fellowship hall into the perfect photo op. Family and friends came from near and far to love on us in the most tangible ways. I remember loading three cars with gifts afterward. And honestly, we still haven’t had to buy diapers. Our little guy is ten months old now, and we’ve even had to give some away.

Our village really showed up for us. Their kindness and generosity is something I’ll never forget, especially because I had to be convinced to have a baby shower in the first place. I hate asking for help. I don’t like people going out of their way for me. But that season showed me just how eager our community was to bless us.

And that’s what I’ve been reflecting on lately. Community.

I think we can all benefit from finding “our people,” “our tribe,” “our village.” The ones who can relate to you on a deeply personal level. The ones who see you, support you, encourage you, and help guide you. It doesn’t have to be a huge group. For me, it’s been such a blessing to connect with other new moms. Moms who’ve been married for under five years, like me. Moms who work corporate jobs and had to figure out short-term disability, maternity leave policies, and state benefits. Breastfeeding moms navigating pumping when they return to work. Moms who had traumatic births. Moms who had difficult pregnancies. Moms who struggled with postpartum depression.

That kind of connection helps you realize you’re not alone. It reminds you that while your experience is unique, it isn’t singular. You start to see that you’re not crazy, you’re not failing, and you’re not the first person to walk this road.

I promise this isn’t turning into a mommy blog. I’m just in my new mom season right now. I’m a novice. I’m learning every day. But to the new moms out there, I see you. Find your people. And if that feels overwhelming, even opening up to one safe person, whether that’s a therapist or another neutral support, can make such a difference.