4-Day Weekend in Washington, DC

My husband and I experienced a “stars aligned” series of events. Due to a postponement of previously planned occasion, we realized if I took off Friday, we’d have a four-day weekend together.

Thanksgiving 2023

Of course we thought about a stay-cation. After all it’s the end of the year, Christmas is a few days away. We’re gearing up for a busy holiday season. Then an equally busy January with several birthdays on both sides of the family. Work at the moment is simultaneously hectic and stagnant for us both. And we’ve had quite a year. As the kids say, life has been life-ing. So I thought we could use a little getaway. And surprisingly hubby agreed.

When we first started dating we learned we both love museums. We even got married at one! For two years we’ve been talking about going to the Smithsonian museums in our nation’s capital. And this week we were finally able to make it happen.

Thanks to my husband’s job, getting there was virtually free. And thanks to hotel points we were able to book our three night stay at an amazing rate.

We’ve been there several times before, but never together. So I wanted to curate a unique experience with an emphasis on the museums.

Thursday

Thursday was our travel day, so nothing spectacular to recap. We arrived in DC around 2:00pm and tried to check in to the hotel, Holiday Inn Washington Capitol National Mall, right away. Unfortunately for us and a handful of other guests, their systems were down indefinitely. Not to worry, we were hungry anyway and walked half a block to the plethora of food trucks by the hotel. We settled on a halal truck. I got a chicken shawarma bowl and Ray got a Philly chicken sandwich. After eating we went back to the hotel to see if their systems had been restored. Still no luck. By now it was a little after 3:00pm, the official check in time. Shortly thereafter management announced they’d have to manually check us in. Thankfully they could still make key cards. After a nap we scoped out the gym and then went to dinner in the hotel restaurant.

Friday

Friday we got a later start than I would’ve liked. But alas, this wasn’t a try to cram everything into four days trip. This was meant to be an impromptu romantic getaway. Around noon we grabbed another food truck lunch to the tune of $34 and then headed to what I thought would be the first of a few museums for the day. We took the approximately 20 minute picturesque walk to the Smithsonian Museum of African American History and Culture. For years I’d been raving about this museum to Ray. My parents and I visited it for the first time on Black Friday 2016. The museum was so expansive and riveting, we didn’t get a chance to tour the whole thing. So this time I was determined to see the portions of the museum I didn’t get to tour last time.

My parents and I at the Smithsonian Museum of African American History and Culture in 2016

As I anticipated, Ray was entirely captivated and engulfed by the museum. To the point where we had to spilt up so that I could experience new portions of the museum this time around.

As an African American woman, a descendent of slaves and grandchild of women who were raised in the Jim Crow south, this museum is HEAVY. And that’s putting it mildly. I truly do not have the words to express the gravity of it all. But it does something special for my soul to see my ancestral history on display. The excellent, the ugly, the exceptional, the triumphs, the downfalls, the pain and struggles. But regardless of your ancestral background, this museum is a must if you’re coming to DC.

Black Panther suit featured in the film, worn by Chadwick Boseman

We spent four hours in that museum, right up until they closed. Which was when all the museums closed. I’d planned on going to at least on other museum on Friday but we ran out of time.

We headed back to the hotel. Ray walked, but I’d been wanting to try those Lime electric scooters since my last visit here in 2019. Finally I was able to successfully ride one.

We met up down the block from the hotel. Where Ray told me he’d try riding one another time.

One thing I realized about DC is that it’s pretty expensive. If a food truck meal of 2 gyro wraps and 1 bottle of water set us back $34, imagine what a sit down restaurant would cost. Though we saved majorly on transportation and our accommodations, we were still on a budget. Prior to arriving I’d reached out to my best friend Howard for restaurant recommendations. He’d attended Howard University there and visits about once each year. So I knew he’d have great food recommendations.

But it was the hotel’s concierge who ended up recommending our Friday night dinner restaurant. He even called in our reservation for us.

We ended up at Georgia Brown’s. This is a black owned soul food restaurant. The entrees are around $30-45. We ordered the calamari to start. I ordered their gumbo and Ray ordered their fried chicken with a double side of macaroni and cheese. The food was just fine. Nothing spectacular, but not bad at all.

Dinner at Georgia Brown’s
Interior of Georgia Brown’s

We called it a night after dinner. It was a long day of walking and emotional highs and lows at the museum.

Saturday

Saturday we got an earlier start. We had our leftovers from dinner for breakfast. Then we were off for the day. My goal for Saturday was to get into at least 2 museums.

We started at The Capitol because the weather was absolutely gorgeous. We took several pictures and videos there. Which my husband, the photo guy, absolutely loved.

I think I got some good shots of him. And he snapped a couple good ones of me.

By this time I really needed a coffee. The nearest coffee shop was about a mile away. And on the way there was the Library of Congress. We had plenty of daylight to spare, so we popped right in.

Full disclosure, I wasn’t exactly sure how desirable a destination this would be to visit. I knew the library contained many old books, newspapers, photos, historic artifacts, etc. But I wasn’t sure how much if any of it would be accessible to the general public.

Turns out not very much. But if you wanted to conduct some research in the library you could make an appointment to do so.

The library itself, like many of the buildings in the heart of DC, was an architectural marvel. As someone who gawks at the architecture in Europe, this was wildly impressive. Marble and plaster and wood and stained glass galore. I was in awe.

Atrium ceiling in the Library

Apart from the architecture, the most interesting thing to see in the library was the temporary exhibit. On display they had Thomas Jefferson’s personal library. Some of the books were the actual ones from his collection and others were replicas. They even had a virtual docent in the exhibit to answer questions. She startled me when I walked by the screen and she said hello. She was calling in via zoom. I thought she was just a prerecorded video.

Back on the atrium level they had a Gutenberg Bible on display.

Lastly we went over to the balcony overlooking the portion of the building where they keep all the books. It was quite a sight to see.

From the library it was a short walk to the coffee shop. Ray who is the biggest health nut even treated himself to a decadent looking chocolate chip cookie from the display case.

Our next stop was the United States Botanical Garden. I’d been there once before in 2012, also during the winter season. So both visits I’ve missed out on what I’m certain during the spring and summer months is a lush oasis in the outside courts of the building.

Luckily much of the gardens are encased in the multi faceted greenhouse. Though crowded inside that day, we were able to enjoy walking through the different areas. My favorite part is experiencing how the temperature and humidity change in each area depending on the plants within the room.

This of all places I would suggest visiting on a weekday when it’s less crowded. Because even when relatively empty, the walkways are narrow.

Knowing we only had time to tour one final museum, or last stop was the Smithsonian Museum of Natural History. This was another museum my parents and I visited back in 2016. So I knew Ray would enjoy himself there.

This is the perfect museum for families. Especially if you have a kid who’s an animal lover.

They have dinosaurs bones, fossils, taxidermic animals, preserved animals, gems, stones, global artifacts and more on display. This is another museum you could easily spend four hours in. I think we spent around two or three there.

My favorite item on display there is the Hope Diamond. It’s a remarkable forty-five carat blue diamond. If you like fine jewelry, it’s really quite something to see.

We stayed at this museum nearly until it closed. By then we were famished. I referred to my list of local restaurants I researched. And one of the closest was Han Palace Barracks Row. This is your typical Chinese restaurant that has a mix of traditional and Americanized dishes. For appetizers we ordered the scallion pancake, egg rolls and soup dumplings. For entrees we had general tso chicken and Mongolian beef. The food was good quality and delicious. I wanted to try their all you can eat menu which offered unlimited “tastings” of more traditional dishes like congee and Peking duck. But Ray was set on his general tso chicken. And their policy is the whole table has to order the all you can eat menu.

This was the end of the night for us. We went back to the hotel and had a little movie night.

Sunday we slept in and checked out at noon. It was a rainy day so we weren’t pushing to cram in another museum. We headed home and got back in time for an early dinner.

For an impromptu trip, this wasn’t bad at all. We spent some quality time together doing something we both enjoy. And with the exception of Sunday, the weather was gorgeous. With no little ones yet, it was so nice to be able to be spontaneous with my husband like this. And I have to shout out my parents for watching our pup while we were gone. In fact they encouraged us to take advantage of our time and go. We couldn’t have asked for a better last minute getaway.

So far for 2024 we only have one trip planned. We’re still narrowing down the destination, but we’ve already allocated the time off. And this is going to be a big trip. Our last hurrah before diving deep into family planning. At least that’s our intention, you never know what God has in store.

Until next time, have a great year end.

Cheers!

Honeymoon in St. Thomas

Posting a lot sooner than I thought.

Well our wedding was an absolute dream. It was everything I’d hoped for. 100% worth the stress, anxiety and panic attacks I had putting everything together in just 18 weeks.

In my last post I mentioned we didn’t quite have a honeymoon planned. We were thinking of just putting it off until later or staying local (Cape Cod, Martha’s Vineyard, Newport, Poconos).

But we’d both already taken the time off from work and wanted to make the most of it. I asked my husband, “If we’re going to do a real honeymoon, what kind of trip do you want to take?” He said, “Somewhere tropical.” Well the only issue with that is he doesn’t yet have his passport. So our options were limited. And sure, he could’ve applied for an expedited passport. But frankly, we couldn’t add anything else to our plates at the time.

Challenge accepted. I narrowed it down to Miami, FL or San Juan, PR. We were leaning towards Miami for costs. The flights are always cheap from our local airport. But somehow the US Virgin Islands came to mind. And I was reminded passports are not required for US citizens. Bingo.

Oddly enough I never considered traveling to the Virgin Islands before. I didn’t know very much about them. But I knew it would be exactly the kind of trip we wanted.

So I started researching on YouTube, TikTok, and Google. And I booked everything just two weeks before the wedding.

If you’ve been following me for some time, you’ll know that a beach resort isn’t exactly my kind of trip/vacation. In fact this was my first. So I looked into things to do while we were there. But I didn’t overly plan or even set an itinerary like I normally do.

All in all this was the most laid back trip I’ve ever taken. Exactly what we needed and wanted for our first fews days of marriage.

We stayed at Point Pleasant Resort in Smith Bay for 4 days and 3 night. We definitely could’ve used one more day. And we’d absolutely stay there again. I’d recommend booking directly through their website so you can select exactly the room you want. We chose a fabulous ocean side villa with a breathtaking balcony and view.

View from our room

There are 3 pools and 2 restaurants on the resort. Worth mentioning it’s not all inclusive. The location is excellent. Walking distance to Margaritaville Resort, Coki Beach and Coral World Ocean Park.

Our first night we dined at the two on-resort restaurants for lunch and dinner. Shoreline Bar & Grille and Mirador, respectively. They were both pretty good and a bit pricey. The staff were nice and friendly.

Lunch @ Shoreline Grille

Our second day we spent on St. John. Just a short ferry ride over from St. Thomas.

We had brunch at Cruz Bay Landing. Where we were visited by a hen, her chicks, and an iguana. Be prepared to encounter chickens and reptiles EVERYWHERE. We then headed to Maho Beach where we spent the rest of the day.

Brunch @ Cruz Bay Landing
Maho Beach

This was a pretty chill day. It was our first time on a beach together and our first time swimming together. I learned Ray actually can swim, quite well. I always thought he was bluffing. But I guess when you grow up in Long Island, you may spend some time on a beach.

We headed back to our resort on St. Thomas and took a nice nap. We got up and walked over to Margaritaville for dinner. There’s a nice little walkway along the water between our resort and their’s. But beware of high tide because the end of the path was washed out. Ray’s sneakers were soaked. I went barefoot, but it was rather rocky and full of little crabs.

Margaritaville definitely came on my radar when researching the island. It has a reputation for being the more lively resort in the area. The price point was about the same, but we were looking for something more laid-back. Something I learned is that people tend to resort hop when they stay in St. Thomas. So while they may be checked into one resort, they may utilize another resort’s beach, pool or restaurant.

I’m actually glad we didn’t stay at Margaritaville. For whatever reason all the seaweed washed onto only their beach. The smell was nauseating. To the point where I almost could not eat there.

But I toughed it out and went nose blind to it after about 30 minutes. We had a nice dinner and walked back to our resort. Again having to tread in ankle-high water with our phones’ flashlights to guide us.

Jambalaya @ Margaritaville

Tuesday was our last full day in St. Thomas. We could’ve done another beach day. But I wanted to go out and see downtown aka Charlotte Amalie. This is where the cruise ships port. So lots of shopping and lots of restaurants.

We had our fill of both. We were accosted by practically every jewelry store owner we passed. Apparently St. Thomas is a great place to buy diamonds because it’s cheaper there. We browsed in a couple shops but had no intention of purchasing any jewelry. Ray tried on a couple Rolex watches. He was like a kid in a candy store.

Side note. We’d also booked a parasailing excursion for that afternoon, but it was canceled due to inadequate weather conditions. Whatever that means because it was a gorgeous sunny day.

We had lunch at Glady’s Cafe. Hands down the best meal I had the whole trip.

Quaint vibes @ Glady’s Cafe
Conch chowder and jerk wings
Curry goat was to die for

We popped in a few more shops for souvenirs and headed back to our resort. Where we spent time laying out at the pool and ended the night at Shoreline Grille again for dinner.

Wednesday morning we packed and headed to the airport. Our driver actually dropped us at a little restaurant next to the airport called Ashley’s for lunch. Little hole in the wall place with local cuisine and a bar. We had some beef patties and went into the airport. Got through customs and security in a decent amount of time. Had our last 2 piña coladas and were on our way back to JFK.

Like I mentioned we definitely could’ve used one more day there. We really only had two full days, a third would’ve been perfect. Nonetheless we really enjoyed our first ever trip together. Ray conceded he realizes now why I’ve made travel a priority in my life. When all goes smoothly, it can be a nice reset.

Anyway I guess our trip can be classified as a “mini-moon”. Because a traditional Honeymoon to me is at least one week. But I wouldn’t be the PTO Vacationer if I didn’t show you all how to make the most of just a few days of time off.

I started a new job and nearly just used all the paid time off I’m allotted for the year. In fact my PTO balance will be negative until September. So needless to say I don’t have any other big trips planned for this year. Just my best friend Etta‘s wedding in North Carolina. Which is taking place on her annual family vacation in the Outer Banks.

I definitely plan to do some weekend trips with my husband this summer. So keep your eyes peeled for that.

Until next time, cheers from this old married lady.

Bachelorette in the Finger Lakes

I haven’t taken a trip in years!

Corning Museum of Glass in Corning, NY

Let’s Catch Up

Hello to all my followers! It’s been quite some time. Lots of things have happened.

I haven’t been on a trip since my best friend Etta got engaged in 2020 on her family vacation in North Carolina.

Since then I’ve become a homeowner, started a new job, adopted a puppy and got engaged to my soulmate. So I haven’t had a lot of time or money to devote to my love of travel. And let’s not forget, we’re still in a global pandemic.

Closing day at my condo in 2021
A couple days after I adopted Luna. She quickly outgrew that sling.
My favorite shot from our engagement photoshoot

Wedding Planning

Now we’re all caught up. Which brings us to May 2022. Our wedding is next month! We initially wanted to have a micro-wedding/elopement. 10-15 guests present to witness our ceremony in NYC or Las Vegas. And then a lavish honeymoon somewhere tropical. Our parents were supportive of the micro-wedding idea, but offered to help with a more traditional wedding. We reluctantly accepted their generosity and started planning something bigger and traditional. We went from a no wedding party, no reception, non-traditional ceremony to hosting 60 guests at a fine art museum with a small wedding party (2 bridesmaids and 2 groomsmen) and a traditional ceremony and reception.

I skipped a bridal shower since our guest list is small. And and a majority of the women attending the wedding live out of state. I didn’t think it would be fair on such short notice to have them come out here twice. Which, did I mention I’ve planned and executed all of this is just 4 months? By God’s grace this has all come together rather smoothly.

Bachelorette Weekend

I didn’t want to skip a bachelorette trip! So my Matron of Honor Eliza and my Maid of Honor Etta put their heads and funds together to plan me a weekend trip I’d love.

I didn’t know many details about this weekend other than the location and that we’d be going to the Corning Museum of Glass. Which if you remember my post from Quebec City, Canada, I have a low key obsession with glass blowing/glass art.

Etta having just moved to a new state, starting a new job AND getting married in 4 months herself wasn’t able to make it here for the trip. But in true Maid of Honor fashion sent her love and her coins!

Friday

Friday morning I picked up Eliza, we ran some errands and started our 5 hour drive to western New York state. The first half of the drive was pretty familiar to me. It was just like driving home to Saratoga Springs. But then we kept heading west. It was around the time we needed to fill up on gas that my tire pressure sensor went off. When we stopped, I inspected the tires and didn’t notice any softness or flatness. So I figured the sensor was faulty or the change in altitude was throwing it off.

A couple hours later we arrived in Horseheads, NY and checked into our hotel. We were conveniently located across the street from a mall with the biggest Burlington Coat Factory we’d ever seen. We decided to stop in there and then head to dinner. About an hour and $100 later, we loaded up the car with our spoils and put a local hibachi place in the gps. As soon as I put the car in drive, I knew I had a flat tire. We hopped out and I could see a nail embedded into the front driver’s side tire. And then I remembered the several construction zones we drove through and realized that’s where this happened. So good to know my tire pressure sensor works.

Eliza asked if I had a spare in the back. Which I knew I did. But then came the tricky part. I’d only ever changed a tire once. 10 years ago with my dad coaching me through each step. And Eliza had never changed one before. But in true Eliza G. strong willed fashion, she was determined to change it. And worse case scenario she had AAA and my insurance had roadside assistance. She FaceTimed her dad to tell us what to do. Which, step one we couldn’t even get the bolts off. Eliza was in flip flops and I was in a dress and we were CLEARLY struggling.

It was just starting to get dark and we were about to call a professional. Just then a random young man approached us and asked if we needed help. We said, “YES please”. Eliza’s dad (I call him Pa Willie) stayed on the phone while the man was helping us. The young man could tell from Pa Willie’s accent that he was from Puerto Rico and asked which part. Apparently the young man, who’s name we never got, lived out there for a time and was familiar with Pa Willie’s home city. He however had just moved to western NY from Tennessee. He definitely had that southern hospitality, drawl and accent. He was done within 20 minutes and would not accept the $20 we offered him as a thanks. He said God put him there to help us. Eliza had already made an appointment online at the Firestone located in the same shopping center for the following morning. Next thing we know we were heading to dinner on my spare tire.

Saturday

Saturday morning we got ready first thing and headed to get some breakfast before dropping the car off at Firestone.

This was where we ran into the next snag of the trip.

We dropped the car off no problem, explaining to the nice tech behind the counter the whole story. How we were here for my bachelorette weekend and we got a flat last night. He was very sympathetic and actually ended up giving me a sizable discount on the 2 new tires I had to purchase. Turns out the tire had the nail and additional shrapnel, so it couldn’t be patched. And my vehicle is all wheel drive so my dad advised me to buy 2 new tires instead of 1. And he paid for them. So thanks dad!

Eliza and I planned to take an Uber to the Corning Museum of Glass where we had a 09:20 glass making experience scheduled. But we were actually in the middle of nowhere, and after 20 minutes could not find a single Uber or Lyft available in the area. The Firestone tech suggested we try a local taxi cab company. Which thankfully we were able to get through to right away. The only thing is they couldn’t get anyone to us for another 20 minutes. Which would make us miss our glass making appointment.

By God’s grace the cab, which was actually a 2004 Chrysler Town & Country, came in just 10 minutes. So we made it to our appointment at the museum with just minutes to spare! But the ride was $50.

Museum Welcome Center
Grabbing the molten glass to add colors
Ready for the annealer

While this glass making experience wasn’t as hands on as the one in Quebec, I was still so excited. With covid protocols, we were only able to step on a pedal rigged to an air supply to “blow” air into the sculpture. But I very much enjoyed every minute of it. It was so cool to me to watch glass being made in person, again.

After our sculptures were added to the annealer for cooling, we began touring the museum.

This museum was everything I imagined and more. We were able to observe glass that was centuries old from every part of the world. We were also able to see some of the most amazing contemporary sculptures made within the last few years.

Life sized dress!
Glass flute. Hey Lizzo!

I think my favorite exhibit was the pieces from the Netflix show Blown Away. Which was filmed in part at the museum! I loved the show and absolutely binged the first season in one sitting. I got to see one of my favorite pieces from the show in person. And it was just as amazing as I expected.

If you know, you know

We spent about 3 hours in the museum. And took another $50 “cab” back to Firestone. Because yet again there were no Uber or Lyft in the area, even by mid day.

I felt much better once we got the car back. I was just about due for some new tires anyway, so it wasn’t an unnecessary purchase.

Eliza told me the latter half of our day would consist of a lake cruise (an absolute staple for all of our trips) and wine tastings.

Seneca Lake

We took an hour cruise around Seneca Lake. Thank God for the climate controlled cabin off the lower deck, because I was absolutely ROASTING on the top deck. I will admit I was so comfy that I dozed off for a little and missed some of the fun facts.

But I did remember that Seneca Lake is the largest Finger Lake by volume. And though it sits on top of a very large salt deposit, that is still mined and harvested to this day, it’s a freshwater lake.

Not the boat we sailed on.
View of the waterfall from the lake

After the cruise Eliza told me I had two options. We could either visit vineyards along the north side of the lake or the south side. I chose north.

Our first stop was Lakewood Vineyards. We paid $5 for a 5 wine tasting flight. We could choose between their dry flight or sweet flight. We both chose sweet. The tasting consisted of about 2-3 sips of each of the wines. While sipping, the employee explained things like what grapes and materials were used for that particular wine and the aging process. As well as the flavor profiles. We really enjoyed this tasting and each purchased a couple bottles.

Lakewood’s Store

We went to a couple other vineyards and did a couple more tastings. None of which stood out like Lakewood.

To end the evening we went to dinner and called it a night early. It was an eventful day.

Sunday

We got a later start on Sunday. We had our leftovers for breakfast and checked out of the hotel.

Our first stop of the day was the Corning Museum to pick up our cooled sculptures. It was nice not having to pay $50 to get there this time.

Mine on the left and Eliza’s on the right

Our next stop was The Rockwell Museum. This was just a 5 minute drive from the glass museum.

The Rockwell Museum

This museum was much more low key. We started on the third floor and worked our way down to the first. This was a much more conventional museum as compared the the glass museum. But what I enjoyed most is that they featured many Native American artists. My favorite exhibit was the one by Michael Naranjo. It was all bronze sculptures that we were encouraged to touch! But that’s not what I loved about it. I loved that the artist made the sculptures after being blinded while serving in the Vietnam War. In fact that’s one of the reasons I love Claude Monet (my favorite artist). He continued painting even when his vision began to fail him.

By touching the bronze, we got to experience the medium as the artist did. And for that reason, I don’t think I’ll ever forget this exhibit.

Our last stop of the day was Corning’s downtown. It’s a 5 block strip of shops and restaurants. I am very critical of downtowns being that I’m originally from Saratoga Springs, NY. The bar is set very high. So I found myself a bit underwhelmed by Corning. I guess my biggest complaint was that most of the businesses were closed. So many beautiful storefronts, and most were not open. It could’ve been because it was a Sunday. Or maybe due to the worker shortage. Either way we were disappointed. We stopped at a coffee shop and the only glass shop that was open and then headed back home.

Corning Town Square
Shot at the end of the strip

All in all this was not your typical Miami or Cancun bachelorette weekend trip. There was no matching outfits, stripper or getting blackout drunk. It was very tailored to me and my interests. Eliza and Etta really made sure I’d enjoy myself and I am so grateful for their friendship and generosity. Especially considering I sprung this wedding on them with just a few months notice. They made it happen for me, and that’s love.

The only picture we got together the entire trip. We often forget to take pictures together when we travel.

I don’t plan for this to be my only post this year. My future husband and I won’t be immediately honeymooning after our nuptials next month. But we are considering a “mini-moon” directly after the wedding. And definitely a traditional honeymoon sometime later this year, we hope.

Until after my wedding, cheers 🥂.

My First COVID Trip

I honestly didn’t see myself traveling again until next year. But this trip was COMPLETELY necessary.

Allow me to explain.

The first week of September I was on FaceTime with my best friend Etta. She was finishing a painting that I’d commissioned from her. Before I knew it, her boyfriend Patrick grabbed the phone and carried it out the room. Nothing unusual, he and I like to chat from time to time.

Paintings I’ve purchased from Etta

Next thing I know he’s pulling out a box hidden in their coat closet. He went to the bathroom and signaled me to stay quiet. And then BOOM a little jewelry box from Zales flashed across the screen. I had to cover my screech.

He carried on the conversation as he gave the phone back to Etta, and emphasized that I should definitely join them on Etta’s annual family vacation to the Outer Banks, North Carolina. So I knew it was going down in just 3 weeks.

I’ve joined Etta’s family on their annual vacations many years in the past. But between COVID, work, and a recent move, I wasn’t planning on attending this year.

I honestly battled with the idea for a little while. I told myself I would just have them FaceTime me. Or maybe I could go for just a few days. My dad even offered to drive me down there. And my family and I would make a long weekend out of it.

But ultimately the circumstances only allowed me to fly out for just a single day. I didn’t mind. There was no way I could miss Etta’s special moment. Especially when Patrick went out of his way to tell me. And the best part is that Patrick was willing to work with me. Whether I could get there at the beginning or end of the week long vacation, he wasn’t going to propose until I arrived.

So I went and witnessed their spectacular moment and flew back home the following day. And then got a COVID test the day after. Thankfully I tested negative.

Please enjoy this mini vlog of my experience. Excuse my boisterousness. I was TREMENDOUSLY excited.

Cheers to the happy couple!

Until next time. Stay safe!

Quarantine Check-In

I’m ready for things to go back to normal.

May 2019 Reims, France

I shared back in February that I wanted to challenge myself to take a trip every month this year. And not necessarily a trip that would require a flight and packed itinerary. But definitely a planned excursion, or weekend getaway. Obviously with the current state of the world, that plan was abruptly foiled.

In March, before everything was shut down, I did make it to Boston for a cool day trip. And I was so excited about my 7 day vacation to Spain that was supposed to commence on April 26th.

Trolley tour of Boston

I must confess, as a wanderluster, I am concerned about the foreseeable future of the travel, tourism and hospitality industries. When will it be safe to travel again? How long until borders are reopened? Will we have to wait for a vaccine? Will we have to be screened at airports? Can we trust that hotels/Airbnbs will be properly sanitized? That being said, I promise I’m in no rush to go anywhere. Safety ALWAYS comes first.

I’m also concerned about how much it will cost to travel when everything reopens. Will airlines and hotels have to inflate prices to make up for the months of no business? Will I still be able to catch amazing travel deals?

I guess only time will tell.

In the meantime, I’m blessed to still be employed. Which means I’m still accruing vacation hours (paid time off). And my company’s CEO is encouraging us to take time off. So I suppose this will be my new 2020 challenge. How do I make my PTO fulfilling if I can’t travel anywhere?

I mean really. I’ve already been working from home for 6 weeks.

Monticello, Italy 2019

I’m currently brainstorming some ways to spend some PTO safely outside of the house. As I’m certain many parents are too, since summer vacation is right around the corner. Of course I will keep you all updated with what I do.

Sending positivity and love to all of my followers during this time. Stay safe and healthy!

Cheers!

Miami Re-Do

I very seldom take what most would consider a vacation. I take what I call “trips”, with packed itineraries. This was my first mini vacation in quite some time.

Miami nighttime skyline

At the start of the year I made a 2019 bucket list of 6 items. At the top of my list, along with completing my Master’s degree, was to see Marc Anthony in concert. For those who don’t know, I am a HUGE fan and have been for many years. With a Puerto Rican best friend, how could I not be? I grew up hearing his albums playing constantly at her house.

He came to CT while I was in DC. And he wasn’t going to be back in my area until January! Which was too late. So I saw he’d be in Miami this weekend. And as if orchestrated by God himself, the flights were only around $150 round trip from my home airport. I’d usually have to fly from NY for that kind of price. I booked everything immediately. Like I’ve said, sometimes you can get lucky and catch a flight deal close to your departure date. In my case, it was booked only 15 days in advance.

This was a quick 3 day, 3 night, mini vacation. Much like my first visit to Miami this past January, I really didn’t plan any activities. But that’s okay. The purpose of this journey was to see Marc Anthony and to relax. And that’s really all we did.

Friday

We arrived Friday just after 23:00. So by the time we got to South Beach Hotel , it was already early Saturday.

We’d already scoped out Pizza Bar for late night dinner before bed. It was less than a mile walk from our hotel and the prices were reasonable. We ordered a couple HUGE slices of pizza for $8 each, and some wings. I must say, for a late night pizza joint, the food was pretty impressive. We weren’t expecting the slices to be so big and so tasty. The wings were tender, well fried, and flavorful.

Saturday

Included with our hotel stay was a complementary breakfast at Orange Blossom. Though we wanted to sleep in, we had to be there by 10:30 to claim our free breakfast. This place had a nice modern vibe. Definitely somewhere I would’ve chosen to dine regardless of the affiliation with our hotel.

The complementary breakfast menu included yogurt with fruit and granola, pancakes, waffles, and a couple other continental breakfast items. I wanted something a bit more hearty, so I ended up ordering a made to order omelette from their regular breakfast menu. But they also let me add on the yogurt and fruit from the complementary menu free of charge.

After breakfast we changed into our bathing suits and headed up to the rooftop pool. A lot of the reviewers for this hotel didn’t like the fact that the amenities such as the pool, gym and bar were at the adjoining hotel, Boulan Hotel It didn’t bother us at all.

Rooftop Pool

We relaxed and tanned under the cabana for the afternoon. Until we were ready for a late lunch.

When booking this hotel I had no idea that our favorite cafe from our trip to Iceland was right next door! We went to Joe and the Juice for lunch. So refreshing and so nostalgic. We headed back to the hotel for a nice afternoon nap before getting ready for the concert.

Saturday Night

The whole purpose of this trip was to see my man Marc Anthony. The concert venue, American Airlines Arena, was only about a 20 minute car ride from the hotel. I’ve never seen such well dressed concert goers. The concert was everything I needed it to be and more. He sang all of my favorite songs from his first album. Songs I remember hearing played in the background at my bestie’s house when we were kids. I loved every minute of it.

Y Hubo Alguien

Heading back we were in search of someplace nice to eat. We went to Ramen Burger but they were closed. The hotel concierge directed us to Sweet Liberty. I will say this place, though providing a full menu, was really more of a bar than restaurant. The DJ was poppin, but definitely not the type of place you go to sit and eat. I felt like the waitress was rushing us the entire time. No one else was sitting and eating. Everyone was up dancing or at the bar. I had a delicious beet salad, that was too massive to eat in one sitting. We headed back to the hotel, 1 block away, and watched some HGTV before falling asleep.

Selfie before the concert

Sunday

Our second full day in the city, we had no plans other than to head to the beach. After breakfast at Orange Blossom, we went back to the room to change into our bathing suits. The beach was only 2 blocks away. And our hotel stay included towels and free chair rentals at the beach. We made it half way there, and it started raining. Cold rain at that. We went back to the room to wait out the weather. But after about an hour we both fell asleep. We woke up to a grey sky with only about 90 minutes to spare before sunset. Darn you daylight savings!

Since we’re budget conscious travelers, we thought to check Groupon for any dinner deals that may be close by. There were several. It was really just a matter of deciding how far/close we wanted to travel, and what kind of food we wanted to eat.

We decided on The Front Porch Cafe. They had a $50 voucher for $25. We had an appetizer, entree and dessert. The service was also excellent. We dined on the patio in the early evening. It was exactly what you’d picture a vacation dinner to be. Just steps from the beach.

After dinner we walked around Collins Ave, popped in a store and redeemed another Groupon at an Italian Bakery for a sweet treat at Rosetta Bakery before heading back to the hotel for the night.

Tarte from the bakery

Monday

Monday morning we packed and headed to our last Orange Blossom breakfast. Our flight wasn’t until 15:55, so we had the hotel hold our bags while we headed to Lincoln Road Mall for some browsing. We spent a little over an hour popping in and out of stores. Just walking around and enjoying the 76 degree sunny weather. We then spent our last hour hanging poolside on the roof of the hotel before heading to the airport.

Lincoln Rd Mall sculpture

Minus the concert this was a very uneventful mini vacay. I’m only 1 month post graduation. I’ve got tons of resting and relaxing to catch up on. This was a great start. I can see why people from up north spend the winter months in Florida. The weather is perfect. Not too hot or humid. Sunny, and with a nice breeze, it feels like heaven.

Two more eventful trips coming in the next couple months. Until next time.

Cheers!

3 Days in DC

This was not my first trip to my nation’s capital, but I was still able to experience plenty of new things.

United States Capitol

A few months back my cousin Kayla, whom my followers will remember from my Iceland and Miami trips, asked if I’d like to accompany her and some friends from church to Washington, DC for a long weekend.

Knowing I’d be newly finished with grad school, I was happy to sign up. It wasn’t until the week of the trip that I realized this was all organized around visiting the Museum of the Bible. And then it made sense why we’d be going with a subset of her church’s young adult ministry. Disclaimer: this was not a church sponsored event. It was merely just a group of church friends organizing a trip for themselves.

This was the first time I’d heard of this museum. And I was very excited to be visiting it.

Day 1

So we met at their church Friday morning for 9:30. Kayla and I were among the first to arrive. So as the rest of the group trickled in, I was introduced to everyone. There were 15 of us in total. As we loaded up the Sprinter van and played level 25 Tetris with all the luggage, I became more acquainted with some of the group members. I learned that they’re all a part of the creative team at the church. Either marketing, photography, or video production.

The crew

Pretty soon we prayed and were on the way to DC. The van ride was smooth. I was asleep for most of it since I’d been up since 4:30 in order to make it to NY from CT at a decent time. To be completely honest, I’m not sure what time we arrived at our Airbnb, but it couldn’t have been later than 15:30.

We picked our rooms and got settled in the house. Half the group left to grocery shop for breakfast and dinner for the following day. The other half held down the fort. But when the grocery crew took at little too long getting back (over 2 hours), we decided to head out for dinner. We were famished.

The main trip organizer, Melanie, already had a restaurant scoped out. We headed to Busboys and Poets which was a venue she’d previously patronized. It was part bookstore, part restaurant, and part poetry club. It had a very metropolitan vibe. The crowd there seemed to be mostly in their 20’s-30’s. I ordered a pasta dish that was pretty decent. Before we were served our entrees, the grocery store crew was seated nearby us. Dinner was filled with good conversation and hearty laughs.

After dinner, we browsed around the bookstore portion a bit before heading back to the Airbnb. Once there we played music, played card games, and talked before heading to bed.

Day 2

We got an early start on Saturday. I woke up to gospel music blaring from the family room and pans clanking in the kitchen.

As Pete and his sous chefs Angelica and Orlando prepared our made to order omelettes, the rest of the group gathered in the family room for devotion led by Aadia. As we read and discussed St. John chapter 17, we were served breakfast. We concluded with prayer and finished getting ready so we could get to the museum.

Museum of the Bible

Entrance of Museum of the Bible

The museum was only about 20 minutes from our Airbnb. So we arrived around 11:00. Everyone was in awe of the entrance. We took several pictures before heading inside.

After clearing security. Some of us browsed the gift shop, while others went to the cafe while waiting for Melanie to purchase our admission and JJ and Jocelyn to park the van.

Ceiling of the 1st floor lobby

We decided to split up into 2 groups. And then to meet at 15:00 for the Washington Revelations experience.

There was so much to see and experience in this museum. I couldn’t possibly see and absorb everything in the few hours I had there, but I’ll just highlight some of the most memorable exhibits.

Gutenberg Press (front)
Gutenberg Press (back)
Scrolls from around the world
George Washington Carver (Christian scientist)

I was so engulfed in the exhibits, that there are a lot of photos I didn’t even think to take. The very first exhibit, “Bible in America” stood out to me. It walks you through the history of the book in America. All the way from Plymouth Rock to the Civil Rights era. As an African American woman, it was interesting to see actual copies of the Slave Bible. A “Bible” modified by slave owners to keep slaves ignorant of freedom.

The museum was filled with many groups of Christians, obviously. We bumped into a choir singing the hymn “It is Well with my Soul” in the replica village area. It gave me the chills.

Hands down my favorite part of the museum was the Hebrew Bible experience. It’s an immersive experience which includes 360 degree animated videos, sculptures, sound effects, and lighting. It literally walks you through the first half of the Old Testament. I don’t want to spoil it for anyone, but my jaw was on the floor when there was burning bush 20 feet away from me.

Before we knew it, it was 15:00 and time to meet with the other group at Washington Revelations. This was a ride simulator which “flies” you over DC to highlight different biblical references engraved in different locations around the city. You feel the wind blowing in your face and everything.

More international scrolls

After this we left and split up for lunch. We agreed to rendezvous at the National Mall area. After eating, everyone wanted to ride scooters to the National Mall. Uber and Lyft have rentable electric scooters riddled throughout the city. You just use their apps to locate and rent one, and then you’re on your way. It’s something like $0.25/per minute and you have a 15 mile range to travel. 3 of us unfortunately couldn’t find one charged up enough to get to the National Mall. But I wasn’t too disappointed. It’s been well over 10 years since I’ve been on a scooter 🛴, and I wasn’t sure I could manage one well enough on the road.

National Mall

For those who are unfamiliar, the National Mall, it isn’t an actual mall. It’s the name used to describe the area from The Capitol to the Lincoln Memorial.

Those who successfully acquired scooters weren’t able to make it all the way there. They shut off right before the Mall. This was due to the parade being thrown in honor of the Washington Nationals winning the MLB World Series earlier that day. The Mall was FULL of people in red t-shirts, hats, and jackets. At first we thought it was some type of MAGA event, until we looked closer.

In the proceeding hours, we walked the entire length of the Mall. Starting at The Capitol, and ending at Lincoln Memorial.

Kayla and I at the Capitol
Washington Monument
WWII Memorial
Representing CT
Lincoln Memorial from afar
Lincoln Memorial closeup

As we were leaving the Washington Monument, a low flying helicopter went right over our heads. 1 minute later it landed in the front lawn of The White House. Was in the President? We don’t know. I unwittingly was recording a video at the time.

So that was it. By then it was night time. We went home around 20:00 and arrived to a family style dinner prepared by Pete and his sous chefs.

Saturday dinner

Day 3

Many stayed up to take advantage of the extra hour. Kayla and I went to bed to take advantage of the extra hour of sleep.

Another early start on Sunday. We had to check out of the Airbnb by 10:00. So we had to fit in showers, breakfast, and cleanup by then. Somehow we pulled it off and had the van loaded up by 9:45.

We attended church service at National Community Church held at Lincoln Theater. We arrived just a bit early for the 10:30 service. We congregated outside and took some pictures in the alley next door.

Mural

Service was absolutely beautiful. I wanted to take some pictures of the service, but I didn’t think it was appropriate. We were out around 12:00. We split up one last time for lunch and agreed that meet up at the van for 13:30. My group went to DC Noodles, just a few blocks down from the church. We shared a great meal and conversation. Afterwards we met at the van and made our way back to Brooklyn.

Overall this trip was a lot of fun. Sometimes it can be tricky traveling with a larger group. But everyone was able to stay unified throughout the trip. I look forward to traveling with this group again.

Cheers!

I’m Back!

Hello to my lovely followers.

Selfie in front of the Trevi Fountain Rome, Italy

After my last trip to Italy, I took a bit of a break from traveling in order to focus on completing my Master’s degree. Well, I’ve officially graduated and I’ve got some trips coming up over the next few months! I’ve got a new job and plenty of paid time off to use before 12/31/19.

If you read my Travel Basics post, October through April is the cheapest time to travel almost anywhere (excluding end of year holidays).

This weekend I’ll be spending 3 days in my nation’s capital, Washington, DC. For December my OG travel buddy and newlywed, Eliza, has planned a surprise destination trip for us as my graduation present. And my last planned trip is to Vietnam and Thailand in January 2020.

I’m looking to book at least one other trip for April 2020. I have my eyes on Eastern Europe.

Stay tuned for new posts!

Cheers!

Travel Basics

A lot of people are asking me how I’m able to afford so many trips. And how I’m able to travel so much with only a few weeks of paid time off (PTO) per year. Here are some travel tips I live by.

1. Book flights well in advance

I tend to book flights AT LEAST 4-6 months in advance. The longer you wait to book something, the more expensive it will become. It’s simple supply and demand, so prices do fluctuate. Sometimes you can luck out and get an inexpensive flight close to your departure date. But personally, I wouldn’t chance it.

Sunset over Reykjavik

2. Try departing from a different airport

I live 15 minutes away from an international airport in Connecticut. But by departing from New York or Boston I can easily save myself a couple hundred dollars on almost any flight. Sure, I have to travel an hour or two out of my way, but it’s well worth the savings.

New York by night

3. Master the art of the 5 day trip

Because I have a finite amount of paid time off (PTO), I have to be strategic with how long I make my trips. At this point, I’ve mastered the art of the 5 day trip. Typically a Thursday through Monday. Therefore I’m only taking 3 days off from work. Most of the trips I take aren’t to relax on a beach, but to explore a new country or city. You can explore almost any city in just 48 hours, if you plan properly. You may need to recruit the assistance of a professional guide. And you may have a jam packed itinerary. But you’ll have made the most of your time.

Quick snap in front of the Eiffel Tower a few hours before our return flight

4. Check multiple sources when booking flights and hotels

Wise consumers always hunt for the best deals. Exhaust all resources when planning your trip. I tend to start with Google Flights. I also refer to Expedia.com and Booking.com to name a few.

5. Start a travel savings account

Put a little money away each pay period for future travels. $50-$100 if possible. Or whatever you can afford. This way you’ll have a nice little nest egg to throw down on any flight deals you may catch.

Icelandic Krona

6. Travel during off season

Who goes to Iceland for Christmas? I did. And it was affordable because it was the off season. Most people are put off by harsh winters. I’m not. And we fortunately experienced unseasonably warm conditions during our trip. Sure the skies were grey and there was only 4 hours of daylight each day. But we got to fully experience a new country. Blue lagoon, ice cave tours, hiking glaciers, black sand beach, waterfalls, northern lights hunting, and a traditional dinner. All in just 4 days.

The point is, it’s more expensive to travel during peak season, typically summer months. But consider traveling in early spring or fall. You’ll see a major difference in prices.

Ice cave tour

Affordable travel is possible if you plan accordingly. By booking shorter trips well enough in advance, you can see the world without breaking the bank.

Cheers!

First things first…

Hello there. Thanks for joining me!

“Don’t listen to what they say. Go see it.” – unknown

Hi I’m Brittney. I live in Northeastern United States, I work an average corporate job, and I love to travel.

Diary of a PTO (paid time off) Vacationer is my blog about my travels. My current job allots me a few weeks of paid time off per year. I make the most of that time by planning fun trips, both domestically and internationally.

You can read more about how I became interested in traveling and what made me fall in love with it in my About Me section.

Travel will be a constant in my life. And I figured I might as well share my journeys with whomever would be interested.

As of today, I have 5 trips planned between now and June 2019.

I leave for Iceland on Sunday December 23rd. I’ll be sharing the good, bad, and in between on here.

Thanks and I hope you enjoy!